It is a beautiful house. There is a loving husband. I think there is a loving dog too. And the woman is able to center herself and be. Just be.
And let me say that if there is a drug that make it easier for people to deal with chemo or radiation therapy I'm all for it. Probably couldn't afford it if I needed it but I begrudge no one that needs or has access to the medication.
Like I said, what little I know for sure is grounded in real life.
There is a woman. She has cancer (not me). She is going through chemo. She is also going to work.
There isn't a choice for her. There is no insurance. There is some support from the public health system but it is catch as catch can.
There is a husband. And a child. And in the best of times she and the family are scraping by day by day. There is a small chance she might beat it.
But I see her. Willing herself to work because she doesn't want to worry her husband.
Wants to take care of her child. I watch her going to work.
I say a prayer ever time I think of her.
I knew a man. He was a professor. Stone academic kinda fellow.
He got sick. Lost his home. Lost his job. Everything.
If you asked him he would go into detail about what is wrong with healthcare and this was back in the 80s. There was nothing academic about his feelings.
He lived it. Scraped by on Social Security.
There is another side. The people that yell that they do not want single payer. The ones that feel that each one take care of his own and responsibility stops at their front door and no further.
If you die too bad so sad, not their problem.
The ones that say it is a state's rights issue and then you go look at that states health system. There is bare bones emergency care if you can find it.
There are people called objectivists. The definition of objectivism is:
Objectivism is the philosophy of rational individualism founded by Ayn Rand (1905-1982). In novels such as The Fountainhead and Atlas Shrugged , Rand dramatized her ideal man, the producer who lives by his own effort and does not give or receive the undeserved, who honors achievement and rejects envy.And there are a whole bunch of them in Congress right now.
There is philosophy.
There is reality.
There reality is that real people are being injured for and unsustainable philosophic wet dream. But there are people jerking off in anticipation of making it a reality.
Some dreams should stay on the other side. The French Revolution happened for complicated reasons like taxation, lack of food, the powerful oppressing the weak,
Once the fuse it lit it is mighty hard to snuff out.
Be careful who and what you light up.
It might be a grown-up that remembers what his mom went through.